cultivating compassion for people having a hard day and behaving really badly in public is often a difficult task, and a heavy ask. But if you imagine that person you're watching being a real ass in public is actually having the worst day of their lives....and this very moment is the worst thing they will ever do, it becomes much easier to generate feelings of connection, compassion and curiosity for the human at the center of the experience (rather than piling on like everyone else)